Here are some tips on how to flirt with men, believe it or not there is a real art to flirting! First of all, you should smile and look as if you are having a great time whatever you are doing or wherever you are. Generally, men will be attracted to a more positive, upbeat person. If you see someone you are interested in and he appears to be available, you should try to make eye contact with me and flash a warm smile to connect with him across the room. Next, if you see him going to get food or drink you may want to accidentally run into him, what a great way to start a conversation. Good luck with your flirting!